xxxchurch.com | Porn Sucks

xxxchurchEvery now and then I come across a ministry  which I seriously like.  What I don’t like are self inflated “look at me” type ministries or personalities with the sole goal of boosting someone’s ego or profile.  And in the ‘Christian” world, there are heaps of these.

In researching for an upcoming sermon on adultery and pornography, I revisited a site I checked out a couple of months back.  xxxchurch.com is a site/ministry which tackles head on, the issues of porn in our society.

What I love most about this ministry is their approach to getting “out there” to the porn industry and tackling head on the issues it creates in society.  Sometimes they get heavily attacked by more conservative Christian groups because, for example, they attend porn conferences and expo’s.

But like Jesus hanging out with prostitutes and tax collectors, these guys, led by Craig Gross, are making an impact.  Have a look at the following documentary “Missionary Positions” for a fascinating and in-depth account of their ministry.

They have a bunch of video’s available on their website and on their YouTube Channel - so be sure to check it out. But two of their clips which I really appreciate and will use in my sermon are below.  The first is about a guy who was once addicted to porn and the effect this had on his life.

The next clip is a music video called ‘Constance’.  A great song about a devastating reality for so many people.  Next time you are tempted to looking at porn, remember that the girl is somebody’s daughter.

x3watch_logoxxxchurch.com also provide free accountability software to help you deal with  your issue.  A simple program running in the background monitoring your surfing patterns and emailing your accountability partner every two or four weeks of any dodgy sites you visit. Is it fool proof?  No.  But it’s a great tool to use if you want to change you addiction to porn.  Here is the link.

I strongly suggest you check out xxxchurch.com even if you don’t have an issue with porn.  A simple, yet in your face, approach is used for this whole area of sexual addiction.  For example, on the topic of masturbation, they say:

What is XXXchurch’s stand on masturbation?
We have had literally thousands of emails about this particular issue. We have heard all the scenarios. “Well if I think about fruit while I’m masturbating, then that is not a sin.” Well isn’t that clever. Or…”If I’m giving glory to the Lord while I’m doing it, then that can’t be wrong.” Hmmm. Why don’t we just make that part of our Sunday morning services then? We have heard all the Pro-masturbation Christian arguments and we wonder if these people are really dealing in reality. It’s all very intellectual and quite scholarly, but we still don’t get it. Sorry.

Our stance is simply this: you want to live a life that is honoring to God then start pleasing him and stop pleasing yourself. Stop making excuses and get some control over your life. Yes, it is tough. Yes, we know hormones are raging. However, God is calling us to holiness. Live an extraordinary life. Masturbation will leave you hanging every time!

Gotta love their style.

9 Responses to “xxxchurch.com | Porn Sucks”


  1. 1 Garrick D. Conner

    This ministry is doing a great job of raising awareness of the issue of sexual addiction. I hope others will heed their message.

  2. 2 LayGuy

    Thanks for stopping by Garrick. I totally agree with you. My hope is that the conservative Christian side will also stop bashing these guys.

  3. 3 michaelmarkley

    telling people you have a No 1 christian porn site is wicked

    and trashing Jesus..whats next? Jesus is gay? to draw gays?………………

    Jesus is the King of porn? …driving around in SUV with XXX church / No 1 Christian Porn site all over it is dragging Jesus into the gutter,, you people dont Love Jesus “YOU hate Jesus and His real Church.”,,,,,,

    we are not on the same team I dont team up with the devil…………

    repent!……………..

    born again Christians overcome sinning

    1 John 3:9 Whosoever is born of God doth not commit sin; for his seed remaineth in him: and he cannot sin, because he is born of God.

    1 John 3:6 Whosoever abideth in him sinneth not: whosoever sinneth hath not seen him, neither known him.

    I am born again and abide in Jesus…..

    michael

  4. 4 LayGuy

    Michael,

    Thanks for stopping by and for your message. Although I must disagree with you completely. Their “methods” of their ministry go a long way to attract those addicted to porn and those working in the porn industry to visit their website where they get a tonne of material to help them get over their addiction of they want to. It is a site about the topic of porn. And it is a Christian website - so ther is nothing wrong about labeling the number 1 Christian porn website.

    Their ministry is all about repenting - this you would see if you bothered to take the time to check things out instead of looking quickly, freaking out, reaching for your bible and finding some scripture to justify your position and then sitting behind it to make yourself look all holy.

  5. 5 michaelmarkley

    I saw many people freaking out at massilon ohio when they stood in a walmart parking lot looking at XXXchurchs SUV ,,with NO 1 christian porn site on it… when the drivers of the SUV were asked do christians stop sinning,,these reprobates told the crowd NO! these two me with their SUV were bragging proud as peacocks about the fact they sin almost daily and are promoting a website called Christian Porn to help people who are perverts,,,so whats next? craig gross will you have your people drive a SUV with”Jesus is Gay.com” to draw gays? how about “Christs No 1 nude gay porn site”.“you trash His church why not Him?”you can tell the great whore and her whore houses your there to help free the gays and it draws them,,, sure you will recieve great support you might make a killing… then you can tell the gays ” God loves them and they will always keep sinning and are saved and born again….(you people are repulsive)
    XXX church .com…. No 1 Christian porn site……IS making the Church LOOK evil….you people are very wicked….

  6. 6 LayGuy

    Hey Michael, so are you calling God a liar when you profess that Christians don’t sin? C’mon man. There is a massive difference in abiding in sin knowing that it’s wrong and stumbling into sin.

    Don’t come across so self righteous man. Take a chill pill and understand that sinning is wrong. BUT at the same time, if/when we fall into sin, we have the ultimate High Priest pleading our case.

    Does that mean we abide in sin? No way! And that’s what these guys were trying to get across to you when they say that Christians still sin. If we didn’t, I don’t think Christ would have any need to be our High Priest.

  7. 7 LayGuy

    Michael,

    Listen to the sermon I shared on this topic here:

    http://citywestchurch.com.au/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=50&Itemid=59

    Scroll down to week 8 and hear where I am coming from.

  8. 8 michaelmarkley

    Born again Christians do not commit sin and cannot.
    1 John 3:9 Whosoever is born of God doth not commit sin; for his seed remaineth in him: and he cannot sin, because he is born of God.

    Everyone starts out sinning rom 3;23…
    since your still sinning your not Born again and have a soul that is death ( means your going to hell ) unless you repent and be converted..Jesus said Go and sin NO more…

    James 5:20 Let him know, that he which converteth the sinner from the error of his way shall save a soul from death, and shall hide a multitude of sins.

    sinning Christians cannot see the kingdom of God or enter in. .you must be born again…John 3;3-7

    your not born of the word when you keep sinning,, but rather a false corrupt teaching that denys the power of God
    Matt 22;29-
    2 Timothy 3:5 Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.

    1 Peter 1:23 Being born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible, by the word of God, which liveth and abideth for ever.

    So as a teacher who claims to make sermons your fruit is bad…Jesus warns about these wolves who keep people sinning..

    Matthew 7:15 Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves. Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles?

    Your statements : (stumbling into sin.) (BUT at the same time, if/when we fall into sin)
    These statements are proof you don’t know the power of Jesus,,, Heb 4;12
    You need to stop sinning and get knowledge…instead of teaching sinning is unavoidable..
    1 Corinthians 15:34 Awake to righteousness, and sin not; for some have not the knowledge of God: I speak this to your shame.

    People who stumble are disobedient to the Word and will Go to Hell,, unless they repent And overcome and walk in obedience they stumble at the word,,1 peter 2;8

    Sinning Christians fall because they remain under the power of satan..they also never recieve forgiveness,, they are hypocrites.
    Acts 26:18 To open their eyes, and to turn them from darkness to light, and from the power of Satan unto God, that they may receive forgiveness of sins, and inheritance among them which are sanctified by faith that is in me.

    They end up tares in Hell,,with the devil…
    Revelation 3:5 He that overcometh, the same shall be clothed in white raiment; and I will not blot out his name out of the book of life, but I will confess his name before my Father, and before his angels.

    You as a teacher making statements that say Christians will or keep falling is promoting Satan’s agenda
    2 Corinthians 11:15 Therefore it is no great thing if his ministers also be transformed as the ministers of righteousness; whose end shall be according to their works.

    When scripture warns against falling and gives promises that real Christians wont Fall..

    1 Corinthians 10:12 Wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall.

    Born again people overcome sinning and don’t fall.. if people do they are in trouble and have not yet been born again.they must repent.

    Hebrews 6:6 If they shall fall away, to renew them again unto repentance; seeing they crucify to themselves the Son of God afresh, and put him to an open shame.

    How do they keep from falling? They have the power of Jesus…
    this power comes by His grace not Law keeping,, the Law is for sinners..1 tim 1;9,,,,

    Jude 1:24 Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy,

    From your statements I hear you still commit sinning.. Scripture say you are of the devil
    And Jesus has not yet manifested in your flesh and destroyed the works of the devil

    1 John 3:8 He that committeth sin is of the devil; for the devil sinneth from the beginning. For this purpose the Son of God was manifested, that he might destroy the works of the devil.

    From your statements as a teacher it seems you say you abide in Jesus and still keep sinning,,, scripture says you don’t know Jesus…
    1 John 3:6 Whosoever abideth in him sinneth not: whosoever sinneth hath not seen him, neither known him.

    michael

  9. 9 LayGuy

    Michael,

    Thanks for your comments. But I’m not going to debate this with you further. When we stand before God, I would much rather let Christ’s righteousness cover me instead of relying on my own.

    I do my best to not sin. But I would never say that I don’t ever sin. I would be a self righteous fool to say that. And my final words to you come from 1 John 1:8 - 1 John 2:2:

    “If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us.

    My little children, I am writing these things to you so that you may not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous. He is the propitiation for our sins, and not for ours only but also for the sins of the whole world.”

    I’m human - saved by Grace and being regenerated day by day. I still fall many times and take great comfort that I have an Advocate pleading my case and in the end, His righteousness will be gifted to me.

    Good bye Michael.

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